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Author Archives: Nancy

Don’t should on me!

I’ve been working hard lately. Maybe a little too hard. Normally it’s quite calm during the summer months, but not this year… There were trainings until mid July and in 3 weeks I’m starting again… This could be the reason why I’m getting more sensitive to the ‘pressure’ other people are putting on me. ‘You… Continue Reading


As you may (or may not) know, I’ve been into stress management for a very long time. And even when I really try to walk my talk and… often succeed, there are times when I get into the automatic pilot too. There is this street, not too far from my house. It’s a two-way street,… Continue Reading

Don’t be a guru, be a contributor instead

Last year an ‘expert’ asked me: “What makes you think you can do what you do?”. She probably didn’t mean no harm, but … the effect on me was bigger than I would have thought. Bigger than I would have liked, to be honest… I started to doubt myself. Of course, I know what I’m… Continue Reading